So.. I’m not sure where to begin with this post, because it goes back a ways, and covers LOTS of drama, but the basic fact is, after I had Claire, a girl I went to HS friended me on FB and chatted and asked lots of questions about pregnancy and whatnot, and I answered them. Within a few weeks, it came out that FB was deleting and blocking pictures of women breastfeeding their children b/c they were offensive. So, I posted a picture of Claire breastfeeding… it wasn’t obvious, but she asked and I told her, and she went off on me on how offensive that was and how that should be between a mother and child. That debate is for another time and place. Anyway, she de-friended me. Months later, she friended me again and apologized for what she said.
Lately, I have noticed numerous status updates from this person about people talking about her, or her getting mad about people talking about her on FB, which, to me, seems to be unnecessary drama for yourself. If you’re constantly getting into with people, why have FB?
Well, let’s bring you to this past Friday. My friend Rebecca’s dad went on a bear hunting trip in Alaska. Her husband posted it on in FB and this girl, comments on how sad it makes her that someone who kill that animal. Which sparks an interesting debate. Which, John, being John, says something funny about it. And this person, makes a snarky comment.
I had enough. I messaged her, stating that I was tired of seeing her snarky comments about people all the time and she needed to get over it. She states that her comment wasn’t directed at my husband, but at her husbands family members ( who can’t see this bear album). Then, tells me I don’t have a right to jump all over her about what she posts on FB. I told her it was cool to be opinionated, b/c I am quite opinionated myself, but maybe not force her opinions on people since it creates unnecessary drama. But, keeps directing that her husband’s family dogs her on FB all the time. At this point, I have decided to drop the whole thing. She messages 6 more times before I reply.
I reminded her about the time she jumped all over me for the breastfeeding picture. She tells me that if I am not going to apologize then, that is between me and God. I told her I don’t apologize for how I feel and I’m not apologizing so, stop fishing for apologies. And that I was tired of reading about all of her bitching on FB every time I sign on. Then, I block her. I figured that was the end. WRONG.
She apparently, has multiple FB accounts, and gets on one and e-mails me again.
Here it is.. copy and pasted. I swear, you can’t make this stuff up. Apologizes for the cursing. I didn’t say it.